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RECONCILIATION BEGINS WITH TWO HEARTS

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Slow Food North brings diversity, inspiration to the table

Slow Food North Louisiana and members of the community will play host to the first Shreveport Reconciliation Dinner, Aug. 27 at the Shreveport Petroleum Club.

The dinner is based on a famous historical event that happened in Charleston, S.C., at the end of the Civil War, hosted by a freed slave and Charleston chef, Nat Fuller.

The Shreveport Reconciliation Dinner is an invitation-only gathering of residents who were chosen based on their spirit of reconciliation and their lives being interwoven into the cultural and racial fabric of the city’s growth and history. Each invitee was encouraged to bring one special person in their lives to share the experience.

Although Slow Food North Louisiana is hosting the event, the idea actually came to light because of the friendship between two local women, Judy Williams and Roxann Johnson.

“It was interesting because it was Judy’s idea,” Johnson said. “She was asking me for input, and she just happens to be my best friend, so I’d say, ‘Excuse me, but it’s your ball game.’ She said, ‘No, let’s get everyone’s input.’” Johnson said the selection committee wanted to stay true to the spirit of the actual dinner over 150 years ago. “There were 80 individuals that were invited, just as many of color as not,” Johnson said. “Nat Fuller had a clear vision of what the community meant to him. He was a freed slave, but he recognized there were whites that had helped make it happen and that he would not have been where he was without them.”

Fuller had invited Charleston’s elite, both white and black, to his Reconciliation Dinner, which was hosted at his restaurant in 1865. Williams said it was a story she read over a year ago in Slow Food Magazine about the Charleston dinner that made her think about doing something similar in Shreveport.

“I was fascinated because it just seemed to me like the time was right to do something like that in Shreveport, something that would serve to recognize people in our community who have already worked together throughout their careers and to inspire new conversation over a meal together. This is an opportunity to get a very diverse group of people together who have a track record to affect reconciliation,” Williams said.

“We wanted to take it a little further,” Williams added, “and suggest each participant to take it back to their own organization. We also gathered together ideas of how you can take this idea forward in your own life.”

Williams will be running around working at the event, not sitting at the table. When asked what she’s looking forward to most, she replied, “To see people sitting down in that atmosphere. I’m hoping to see what always happens when we open our minds and open our hearts: that things will unfold that we aren’t even anticipating.”

Slow Food North was identified early on because it seemed to be a good nonprofit match for the goal of the dinner. Angie White, chairwoman of Slow Food North Louisiana said, “The original historical dinner was to reconcile the leadership, old and new, in Charleston so they could move forward after the Civil War. Their intention was really to celebrate the great works of the original chef. We’ve known for a long time that food brings people together and causes them to lower their barriers, in the context of pleasure. It allows tensions to lessen. It creates opportunities for people to talk together.”

Slow Food North has encouraged its members to host dinner parties with people from different cultures and outside their normal circles to share ideas and messages. “When you’re sharing your culture with food, there is pride,” White said. “It’s a very personal thing. You’re sharing a gift with them.”

“We will also be celebrating the official north Louisiana meal adopted by our state legislature and created by Chef Hardette Harris,” White said. “This is critically important. It supports our farmers, many of which are donating food. We are here to celebrate our farmers and artisans and chefs who care about local farms. For me, Hardette was the perfect person to do this because she cares very much about our local food. We have our own food traditions.”

Harris was quick to point out, “I’m the lead chef, but it’s Chef Eddie’s (Mars) kitchen at the Petroleum Club. He’s going to be working on this with me.”

“Over the years, visiting home and during the holidays, I noticed that our food seemed to be based on South Louisiana traditions. We celebrated someone else’s food. We can do those other foods well, but we have foods that are indigenous of this area. I wanted to have dinners that celebrated this food.”

Harris’ Official State Meal of Louisiana is enormous. “The meal consists of things we grow here naturally and pull out of our fresh water,” Harris said. “We already an official meat pie, the Natchitoches Meat Pie, so we included a mini-Natchitoches meat pie, then catfish, fried chicken, barbecue ribs and sausage. The side dishes are greens, purple hull peas, black-eyed peas, sweet potatoes, rice and gravy, and potato salad. Condiments are hot sauce and mayhaw jelly. Peach cobbler and pecan pie round it out.

Harris has encouraged people to simply trust the Reconciliation Dinner. “Just support us in the background,” she said. “I know it’s not open to the public, and there are no tickets to sell. This is a start. That’s why we nominated people with this criteria. Yes, it’s timely, but I think we would approach it the same way if it wasn’t happening at this time. Just think of Nat Fuller and his attempt to bring the two sides together. They had just came out of slavery, and for him to have the heart to think that it would work, then surely we can.”

A key component of the Reconciliation Dinner will be the Sawa Bona moment. “Sawa Bona is a South African greeting,” Johnson said. “It translates to ‘I see you.’ The respondent says, ‘I am here,’ meaning ‘until you acknowledge my humanity I do not exist.’ It stresses the interdependence of human beings, but there is so much more to it. It is like a short presentation that will give the individuals in the room and those honored the opportunity to develop trust, dignity and respect within their space at that dinner. They will start looking at people and saying, ‘I really do see you.’” 

The search committee was very carefully chosen in order to be inclusive and to identify the people who had made an impact and could carry it forward. It was extremely important to those involved that they get that right.

“Angie and Roxanne were two on the steering committee,” Williams said. “We deliberately asked people not associated with the event to serve on the selection committee with no bias or preconceived notions.

Everyone involved wants to make sure the selection process is transparent and that it was conducted as fairly as they could make it. “We opened up this selection process and asked people to nominate those who had made efforts towards reconciling,” she said. The nominees included rising voices, people who may be younger and haven’t built up a body of work. They wrote essays that they submitted online. We wanted people who still have bandwidth to carry the conversation forward. We are counting on individuals to have some way to have a natural platform, like someone who maybe is a head of a church or organization that could take this message back to people to continue the conversation. This dinner is unique in that it is not an end point; it is a starting point.”

“There will be young, old, black, white,” Johnson said. “The process is beautiful because it was anonymous. We went online and looked at all the names and nominations in front of us before we met. Then we selected on our own. We met for four hours. There was a judge, a high-ranking official from the mayor’s office, a doctor, a young entrepreneur, me (I’m in culture sensitivity), a union worker, a young photographer, a leader of a foundation. … It could not have been more beautiful to sit at this table. It was a raw, beautiful process.”

“I am forever changed,” Johnson said of the process and of her friendship with Williams. “She never stops thinking about ‘What else can I do?’ She is my best friend. If you knew the heart and the spirit of the person that brought this event to the table, you would never doubt it.”

–Susan Reeks

FOR MORE INFORMATION:

Find out more regarding the Reconciliation Dinner at www.reconciliationshreveport.com.

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